These photos were taken when
my older sister Akiko
came to visit me in NY.
We had never seen so much snow
in our whole life
(except for when we went skiing, I guess.)
that we just had to laugh
at how crazy things seemed.
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The day she arrived,
we were walking around Manhattan
and we decided to get a hotdog on the street
because that seemed like
a NY-thing to do.
(well, it seemed that way to us.)
So anyways, we got it.
That was the very first thing she had in NY
…and
….it was like
….the most ordinary hotdog you could ever ask for.
It was so ordinary that we just had to laugh.
The expectation we had for
a hotdog bought in NY
and the reality…
Oh the gap!!
And since we couldn’t stop laughing
and since the wind was blowing so hard,
our hotdog started to get cold.
We were so lost in Manhattan
and we were freezing
holding a semi-frozen hotdog in our hand.
It was so sad and funny
at the same time that
we just couldn’t stop laughing.
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After the laughs,
even the blizzard that
completely changed our plans in NY
seemed like it wasn’t such a big deal.
After the laughs,
even the most boring hotdog seemed
worth our time and money.
(…and it was.)
I’m not saying what’s happening now is
the same as our experience with
snow or the hotdog
but I am going to try to remember
the importance of laughter,
because that is what’s going to
change and improve the situations.
And though this earthquake is obviously
what made me think about what I just wrote,
I’m not just talking about the catastrophe in Japan
but about things that are
happening around the world.
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I’ve been struggling between my mind
that keeps telling me that
it’s inappropriate to be laughing or smiling now.
(So I had been rather frown-y and depressed these days.)
But I know that isn’t true.
People who could laugh should laugh.
People who must cry should cry
until their heart is a little healed than now.
Smiles and laughter are contagious
so…
more and more laughter
to the world
and for the world.